While planning for our NYC trip, I discovered 5 apps that made my life SO MUCH EASIER by saving me time, money, and mental space. Check them out for your next visit to New York City:Read More
[This was originally posted on my Instagram account, 10/25/18.]
Lately, I've had a few conversations with fellow moms about the challenge of raising boys in our current social climate. There are so many conflicting messages about the professional, sexual, and stereotypical roles of men — how do you navigate all that and raise a healthy, courteous, well-rounded boy?! I'm still trying to work this out, but I wanted to share 3 things that have really helped me understand my job as a boymom today.
HOW TO RAISE A GENTLEMAN IN A #METOO WORLD
1. Embrace boyishness. Boys need to run, jump, climb trees, build things, destroy things. We can't expect them to sit still or play inside all day. Being active is a pressure release for them — and a great opportunity for YOU to guide them to channel this into constructive outlets...and teach respect, body awareness and fairness from an early age.
2. Model good behavior. Boys need role models — men and women. They need to see healthy marriages, selfless teachers, courteous coaches, older boys who are respectful and kind. We can actively seek these people out, in church or community organizations or extracurriculars, and point them out to our boys. Make sure they see and notice qualities of good men, and help them aspire to be like that.
3. Teach courtesy. Teach them to respect their own amazing bodies, and others' too. A couple weeks ago my boys were really into sneaking up behind each other to tickle until the other screamed. Eventually I sat them down and explained that it's not okay do something that makes another person uncomfortable. We need to be respectful of everyone — boy or girl. They know this is important in our house.
Moms, WE can make such an impact on the next generation! These boys need us to pay attention and help them see what it really means to be a good man. 💙
So…we had “the talk” with our son. Yikes! Spoiler alert: it actually went better than I thought it would. I thought I’d share some of the resources my husband & I used to prepare, and then I’ll give you the run down on how it actually went.Read More
Don’t let your Disneyland trip be a disappointment: use my guides for the BEST visit to the Happiest Place on Earth! Forget hours of internet research — if you’re going with kids, this is everything you need to know.Read More
Looking for some new ideas to spice up your family’s movie night? Here’s a list of 70 movies guaranteed to entertain your kids (without too much kissing or potty humor ;).Read More
We love to film interviews with our boys every year and have gotten it down to a science. Today I’m sharing the list of questions we always ask them — and details on a super easy way to record & share interviews with your long-distance family members. (Hint: there’s an app for that!)Read More
[This was originally published on my Instagram account, 2/9/18.]
I worked in PR & marketing for years before I had kids. I traveled and had defined goals and checked things off lists. I felt very fulfilled. I also watched friends have babies and take kids trick-or-treating and do park days -- I wanted those things eventually, but a tiny part of me was sad I didn't have it YET.
Fast forward a few years. I had babies & freelanced for a while but ultimately decided to take a break from work for a bit. Now I love taking care of sweaty, cuddly little humans and creating routines and doing my own park days -- but I'd be lying if I said I didn't sometimes miss sitting at a quiet desk ALONE and just being able to finish a thought, let alone a sentence.
It's so hard to just enjoy where you're at, isn't it? I try to imagine myself in 10 years, with teenage boys eating me out of house and home, wishing I could go back to NOW when these boys talk my ear off and hold my hand and actually don't eat a thing. I'm trying to just embrace the phase I'm in -- whiny toddlers, endless potty talk, wiggly teeth, Nerf gun injuries and all. One day this will be over and we'll be on to something else.
Basically, I'm saying that YOU -- yes, you. Hi! -- are doing a great job, no matter what you're dealing with. If you're loving your kids, you're doing the best you can...and that's all that matters. There will always be challenges to every phase of motherhood (and of life!), but the trick to getting through them is to try to embrace the phase anyway. 💙
(📷: 2011. Look how fast time flies, I swear we took this pic yesterday!)